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An Example of an Angry Non
I found this review on Amazon as a review for the book “”Understanding the Borderline Mother.”" This excerpt says a lot about people’s understanding of borderlines: Perhaps it is true that the...
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Oppositional Defiant Disorder
Here’s an article about ODD and Conduct Disorder (CD) in children and the correlation to adulthood personality disorders: Borderline Personality Disorder is called this because patients have many...
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A Response with DBT Skills
Below is a response I gave to a member with a girlfriend with maldapative BPD responses: The purpose is really about HER and not you though. She thinks that she is not lovable and is a bad person and...
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It’s the emotions stupid
In “When Hope is Not Enough” I quote renown Buddhist monk Thich Nhat Hanh about anger. Here is the quote: Anger is an unpleasant feeling. It is like a blazing flame that burns up our self-control and...
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A primer on Emotional Dysregulation and its role in Borderline Personality...
Emotional Dysregulation and BPD What is important for Non-BPDs to realize about BPD-like conditions and disorders is that they have a core component in common, which is called emotional dysregulation....
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Ask Bon: Why does my borderline rage at me?
Rage burns and burns In the support groups, rage is one of the most talked about aspects of BPD. Why? Because it is one of the most difficult for the Non-BPD to endure. Many people ask themselves, why...
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Story about resentments from Zen
I really like the book Zen Shorts, which is a children’s book about Zen and Zen stories. There are 3 stories in the book and this is my favorite, which is about resentments and hanging on to negative...
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Ambiguity is the greatest threat
In 2009, I attended the International Society for the Study of Personality Disorders (ISSPD) in New York. Dr. Glen Gabbard, MD, a psychiatrist and clinician that treats people with Borderline...
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